After Ahu a Kivi, we went to Puna Pau, which is the quarry site for the red scoria (porous, volcanic rock) that the Rapa Nui used to make the crowns/hats/top knots that some of the moai have. The second picture shows an example of a moai with such a hat. The hats crack me up. The Rapa Nui spent years carving these gigantic moai, took all the trouble to move the moai to the desired location, and then said "you know what this thing needs? A hat! Let's make our jobs that much harder by attaching a separate object carved from a separate quarry on top of this 30 foot high statue." Funny. That sounds like a decision made by management, not by the worker. Goes to show some projects are done regardless of the extra pain and toil required.
Thursday, June 5, 2025
Rapa Nui: Tour Day 1: Puna Pau, Vinapu
Wednesday, June 4, 2025
Rapa Nui: Tour Day 1: Backstory and Ahu a Kivi
The boys had a week and a half off from school for Fall Break, so we decided to use the extended break for a 9 day trip to Rapa Nui, also known as Easter Island. Rapa Nui is famous for the large, mysterious statues littered across the island. It's a place Drew and I have always been curious about, so we decided to check it out. It is similar to Hawaii in how far away it is from the coast. It was a 5.5 hour plane ride to get there. It is now also, unbeknownst to me prior to this adventure, a territory of Chile, and you can only get there by flying from Santiago. So lucky for us, we got to pay non-international prices for our plane tickets. When you look at Rapa Nui on google maps, it looks like it is literally in the middle of the South Pacific Ocean.
Saturday, May 17, 2025
Emerson's 7th Birthday
On May 9th, 2025, Emerson turned 7 years old. How is it possible that we have a 7 year old! Unbelievable. The morning of his birthday, we started off with a yummy chocolate chip pancake breakfast, which is family tradition.
To celebrate at school, Emerson was allowed to wear "street clothes," aka not his uniform. So, after breakfast, he opened up a present from Auntie Courtney in Australia, which was an All Blacks Rugby jersey from New Zealand, where Courtney is from and where we've visited several times. The All Blacks are the best rugby team in the world. They are like the Yankees in baseball, except they come from a super small island with far less resources and budget, and yet they still dominate. Since the boys are learning rugby at their school, I thought it would be cool if they had All Blacks jerseys, so I asked Courtney for them awhile back. She graciously bought them on a trip home and shipped them to us. The shipping from Australia cost $56, probably close to the cost of the jerseys. Yikes. Thanks Auntie Courtney!!
Thursday, May 8, 2025
Drew's Hernia Surgery
Last Wednesday, April 30th, Drew had surgery for two hernias. One was around his belly button that he got while lifting incorrectly. The other was one that he might have had from birth, an inguinal hernia. Emerson had an inguinal hernia at birth as well, which was much larger and obvious, that was surgically fixed when he was 6 weeks old. And Drew's Dad has had hernia surgery too, so this clearly runs in the family. Since they were already in there, Drew decided to have both fixed at the same time. One of the hernias was able to be fixed laparoscopically, but the second was not, due to the location. So, in the end, Drew had four openings in his abdomen, all of them about a cm in size.
We had the surgery performed at Clínica Alemana, which is undoubtably the best private hospital in Santiago. Drew was able to schedule the surgery very easily. The only real wait time we had was about 5 business days to get the surgery pre-approved by our insurance. Without insurance, the surgery cost $7K. With private international insurance, our deductible is $700.
Drew was due to the hospital at 6am, so he was gone before the boys woke up. I took the boys to school, and then walked to the hospital. Drew's surgery was scheduled for 8am, so by the time I got there at 8:30am, he was already in surgery. I knew this would likely be the case, but I was wondering if they would be late and wanted to wait with Drew in his pre-op room if I could. I also wanted to figure out where everything was. This turned out to be pretty complicated, but that was mostly due to the communication barrier as well as a lack of prep between Drew and I. The hospital has three main buildings. First there is a tower with 18 or something floors that is for consultations, evaluations, and normal doctor visits in varying specialties. There is a hospital building where the ER is and where all major surgeries are performed. This was where Drew got his finger stitched up awhile back. Finally there is a OB/baby delivery building across the street. Drew told me he was meeting the surgeon on the 3rd floor of the tower, so I started there. Went to the 3rd floor, which was Urology and Gastroenterology. Didn't seem like the right place, and when I asked a check-in person in Spanish where I could find my husband who was in surgery, she gave me the blankest look ever. Luckily there was another doctor there who heard me and understood what I was saying, or trying to say, who told me, in Spanish, that all surgeries are performed in the hospital part of the building. Makes sense.
So I needed to go back to the main floor and walk over to the other section. I did this, found the Info desk at that area, and asked them where my husband was so I could wait. They told me, in Spanish, that they couldn't see which room Drew was assigned to (because he was in surgery already, and they don't make room assignments until after, but I didn't know that) and to go to the 3rd floor waiting room, as there is a big TV screen there with updates on patients in surgery. I went there, and this where the lack of prep came in. The board was listed by surgeon name and patient id only, not by patient name. When Drew had his rhinoplasty at Denver Health, it was not this way; they listed the patient update board by patient name, which is what I was expecting. So, I assumed this one was the same way, and when I didn't see Drew's name on the board, I began to get worried. Really, I should have asked Drew who his surgeon was ahead of time, but I didn't think to do that. I asked a nurse for help in Spanish, who walked me back to the nurses' station to do a deep dive on their computers. Thank God for nurses, they are always the heroes. The nurses confirmed Drew was in surgery right now, and they told me to wait at a different waiting room on the 4th floor.
I did this for an hour, still checking the board but unaware that it wasn't patient names I was looking at but surgeon names. After an hour, which was supposed to be the duration of the surgery, the board never got updated with Drew's name (of course not), I went back downstairs to ask the info people again if they could see anything. They again said no, but this time they felt bad for me and asked an interpreter to come over and help me. It is amazing what stress can do to the body. Riding back up in the elevator with her, I began to cry, completely against my will. I didn't want to cry. I didn't feel that overwhelmed, but the stress of not knowing what was going on definitely took over. The interpreter was a saint as well. She took me up to the 4th floor waiting room again, went in herself to talk to the nurses again while I took deep breaths in the waiting room, came back out and lifted my gringa veil of ignorance that, indeed, his information had been on the board the whole time, here is his surgeon, and he was still in surgery, so still no room assignment. Great. I should have known this by now, living in another country, but you should never assume you understand how things work. It's different. Assume it will be different.
Anyways, about 15 minutes after that, the doctor called me saying Drew was out of surgery, that all went well, and the he was going to be in recovery for about 1.5 hours, after which he would be moved to a post-op room, and I could see him. This was at 10:15am, which I could now see very clearly on the update board. Face palm. So I waited in the waiting room for two more hours. At 12:30, I could see on the board he was out of Recovery and moved, but, again, no idea where to. I went back downstairs to info, and they could see now he was in room 1206. They tried to explain to me where room 1206 was, but I didn't follow it very well. I understood it wasn't in this building, so I assumed it was in the tower on the 12th floor. Where else could it be? So that's where I went, and that was also wrong. The 12th floor was something else diagnostic something or other, and they couldn't see on their computers where Drew was, so they couldn't help me either. At this point, I called the surgeon, as he had actually called me on his direct line earlier which I thought was amazing. So he picked up and told me in English that Drew had been moved to the Maternity building across the street via an underground tunnel. Ack. That's what the info ladies had been trying to describe to me. So I went across the street, went to the 2nd floor (go figure), and found Drew in his room. This was around 1pm. Le sigh.
Avery gets out of school at 1pm, and I had arranged for our neighbor who has a daughter in Pre-K to pick him up and bring him back to our apartment where our cleaner Karen was waiting to watch him. That all went fine. I stayed with Drew in his room for the next several hours waiting for the doc to come discharge him. Again, don't assume anything in another country. At Denver Health, they discharged him relatively quickly. Once he was out of recovery there, he was discharged within a couple of hours while he was still pretty dang loopy from pain meds. So this, again was what I was expecting here. When I got to Drew this time, he was completely sober already, but uncomfortable for sure. When they served him lunch at 1:30pm, I knew we weren't going anywhere soon. At 3pm I asked the nurses when we would be discharged, and they said we had to wait for the doc. At 3:45pm, I Whatsapped the doc (again, he gave us his direct number, and he would chat with patients on Whatsapp!) and he said he'd be by around 5pm to discharge Drew. So I left to go pick Emerson up from school at 4pm and to drop him off at home. Karen needed to leave, so she was replaced by our regular babysitter Catalina at 5pm. I then went back to Drew, luckily the hospital is literally down the street from our place, so it was easy to get back and forth. The doc came in with a pain med prescription and care instructions. I raced to the pharmacy and got the prescription filled in 15 minutes. Went back. He was finally discharged at 6:30pm. We took an Uber the 3 minutes home, and then everyone went to bed. Whew.
His recovery plan seems relatively straight forward. No exercise at all for a week. Post-op check-up after a week, that will be today. Then light exercise for a couple of weeks. After a month he can lift light things, then slowly build up to lifting heavy things. Actually, the hardest part in the initial 48 hours was keeping the boys from accidentally bumping/jumping on his stomach. It basically meant the boys needed to stay away from Drew completely while he rested, so I've been solo parenting for awhile. By Day 3, Drew was able to get up more and start walking around. Now, Drew can stand up/sit up for longer periods, and he's even cooked some. But all kid duties and activities have been done by me for the past week, and as you can probably tell, I'm tired. I honestly have no idea how single parents do this day in and day out. It wouldn't be too bad for only a week, but the boys clearly miss their dad, miss playing with him and being silly with him and rough housing with him. I am not the fun parent, we know this. And those feelings come out as frustration. Frustration at having to do homework, frustration at having to clean up messes, frustration at having to tie my own shoes. Anything really. And when they get frustrated, they fight with each other, both physically and verbally, resulting in more tears. So that's been the exhausting part for me is trying to stay patient while the boys have constant melt-downs over seemingly any and everything. But deep breaths, this to shall pass. And wine. Lots of Chilean wine. And every day as Drew is able to do more and interact with them more, they are balancing back out.
Friday, April 25, 2025
Easter and Kirchnerismo
Last weekend we celebrated Easter here in Chile, which I thought was worth documenting because of how important it is down here. The boys actually had Good Friday off from school as well as a half day on Holy Thursday. We learned this the hard way, because those dates weren't listed on the school's "No School" calendar. I now realize that the list provided by the school doesn't include ANY public holiday, only the additional ones taken off by the school. It's lucky I was paying attention to the Whatsapp classroom chats, or else we would have shown up on Friday with lunch boxes in hand. It's a bit of a bummer, because we could have used the long weekend to travel, but as it turned out, the boys and Drew had a nasty virus the week before, high temps, lethargic, and deep coughs for Emerson and Drew. So even if we had a trip planned, we would have been in rough shape. So instead, we stayed close to home and recuperated.
On the Saturday before Easter, some friends of ours found a craft that was being put on by a local cultural center. It was free, so we decided to go. Turned out it was a huge event, with room for 200 kids. We got there a half hour early, as the Insta post suggested, and ours were literally the last couple of kids that were admitted. Others got turned away. I found this hilarious because every other event we have been to in Santiago has been a "you're weird if you show up on time" sort of situation. But not this one! We were decorating Easter baskets. Boys had fun.
Avery and I had our picture taken at the event, and when the photographer asked our name and I said "Kirchner" she thought we were related to the previous President of Argentina, Cristina Fernández de Kirchner (CFK). Being down here, this has come up a couple of times now, so I thought I would mention it.
CFK was the First Lady of Argentina when her husband, Nestor Kirchner, was President from 2003-2007. Then she was President immediately after from 2007-2015. And then she was VP from 2019-2023. Between her and her husband, they've branded their ideas as Kirchnerism or "Kirchnerismo" in Spanish. This is the Gemini response to "What is Kirchnerism."
Kirchnerism (Spanish: Kirchnerismo) is an Argentine political movement based on the ideology of Néstor Kirchner and Cristina Fernández de Kirchner, who consecutively served as presidents of Argentina.
- Peronist Roots:
- Kirchnerism is considered a branch of Peronism, a historically significant Argentine political movement.
However, it distinguishes itself with its own specific interpretations and policies.
- Kirchnerism is considered a branch of Peronism, a historically significant Argentine political movement.
- Left-Wing Populism:
- It's generally categorized as left-wing populism, emphasizing social justice, income redistribution, and a strong role for the state in the economy.
- Key Policy Areas:
- Social Programs: Kirchnerism is known for implementing and expanding social welfare programs aimed at reducing poverty and inequality.
- Human Rights: A strong focus on human rights, particularly concerning the prosecution of those responsible for abuses during Argentina's "Dirty War."
- Economic Nationalism: Policies that prioritize national economic interests, often involving state intervention and protectionism.
- Latin American Integration: A tendency to favor close ties with other left-leaning governments in Latin America.
- Relationship to Peronism:
- While deriving from Peronism, Kirchnerism has at times clashed with other Peronist factions. It is seen as a reinterpretation of Peronism for the 21st century.
- Economic Policies:
- It has been characterized by state intervention in the economy, including nationalizations and price controls.
In essence, Kirchnerism represents a particular brand of Argentine politics that blends Peronist traditions with a contemporary left-wing populist approach. Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cristina_Fern%C3%A1ndez_de_Kirchner
The theory sounds good, right? But, I believe people have bad feelings about her, as there were alot of corruption scandals during her presidency. When I asked our Spanish tutor about her, he said she was a criminal and completely corrupt. Doesn't sound like actions are aligning with words. And a criminal in office, that could only happen in South America, right? Lol. But funny about the Kirchner connection, huh? The husband, Nestor Kirchner, was born in 1950 in Rio Gallegos, which is a town down in the Argentinian part of Patagonia, and his wiki page says he was a third generation Kirchner living there of German-Swiss descent. Which would mean his grandfather would have immigrated in likely the late 1800's, early 1900's. Our Kirchner clan immigrated to Detroit in roughly 1925. So, as far as we know, we are not related to each other, but, somewhere farther back in time, it's certainly possible.
For actual Easter, Chileans are all about the chocolate eggs and bunnies, so that felt very much the same. But I could not find plastic Easter eggs to set up an Easter egg hunt in the house. Not sure if they hide the chocolate eggs straight? But the plastic ones were no where to be found. It also felt strange to be celebrating Easter in the fall. Bunnies and rebirth and falling leaves? No blossoms Everyone in the Southern Hemisphere that celebrates Christian traditions has to acquiesce to Northern Hemisphere norms, and I never realized how weird it must be until now. Granted if that's all you've ever known, I suppose singing "Let It Snow" in the middle of summer still has that warm, fuzzy, nostalgic feeling if it's tied to fond family memories, but still. How do they not feel ripped off? My favorite Easter tradition is making deviled eggs, which was no problem whatsoever. Hooray!
Wednesday, April 16, 2025
Mendoza Trip: City Day 2
On our second day in Mendoza, Drew had booked us a walking tour, which, in my opinion, is a wonderful way to see any city. You get a much deeper historical perspective, and there is a lot to gain hearing a local's perspective as well. The first piece of info shared was that in 1861, Mendoza suffered a 7.2 level earthquake, which killed more than 12,000 people, and the entire city was basically destroyed. So you aren't going to see super old, colonial aged buildings within the city for this reason. The city was rebuilt in a slightly different location over the next few years. They integrated a plaza structure into the city planning, basically parks that provide safe open space for people to flee to if there was ever another earthquake of that severity. You can see the large Plaza Independencia in the middle, with four satellite plazas radiating off of it, for this purpose. The satellite plazas are: Plaza España, Plaza San Martin, Plaza Chile, and Plaza Italia. We visited Plaza España, Plaza San Martin, and Plaza Independencia on the tour, and then Drew and I hit the other two in our own explorations.
The first plaza we visited on the walking tour was Plaza España. The first thing you notice when you start walking through it is that the entire thing is covered by beautiful little colored tiles. They do repeat eventually, but there must be 24 or more different patterns. I think they're supposed to represent different provinces in Spain?

